Baygal, I am sorry he got you - he got me too ... fortunately for me I am too poor to be a very good victim ... but he did get a little money from me anyway. He joined a Christian dating website and that is where I developed a brief friendship with him ... it wasn't long before he asked me to send him money - it involved a child he claimed was sick. I felt this might be a scam but did not want to risk being wrong and not help a child in need.